Dating a divorced father
While there have been several studies on divorce, remarriage and step-parenting, very few exist for the courtship period parents go through before remarriage.Here are some guidelines to consider concerning post-divorced dating and your children: Adjusting to the idea of dating isn’t just for parents. Constance Ahrons, author of The Good Divorce and We’re Still Family and professor emeritus at University Southern California, recently completed a 20 year longitudinal study on children of divorce.As such, this article provides helpful hints to consider when you are contemplating dating again post-divorce.Dating while you are still married is highly discouraged.
To put an end to this grieving process, and purportedly to propel you back to the person you once were, many of your friends may suggest that you find another woman and that spending quality time with her will expedite the healing process.
So, if you dated someone for two years, you should wait a year before settling down again.
You can date freely and meet people, but just be careful about rushing into anything too soon.
They are dealing with their own issues of loss, betrayal, adjustment, trust- just to name a few.
Parents need to make sure before things get tricky that children understand their continued importance to them, the freedom for the child(ren) to continue a close loving relationship with the ex-spouse (despite any personal misgivings) and the possibility of new people in the parent’s life.